Friday, 4 October 2013

Cum sa detectezi mincinosii / How to spot a liar


English version follows in the second part of the post

Pamela Meyer: How to spot a liar
In fiecare zi, suntem mintiti de 10 pana la 200 de ori iar indiciile pentru a detecta minciunile pot fi subtile si non-intuitive. Pamela Meyer, autoarea cartii "Liespotting" ("Detectarea minciunii"), ne dezvaluie secretele celor instruiti sa detecteze minciuna si sustine ca onestitatea e o virtute ce merita pastrata.

Necunoscutii mint de trei ori in primele 10 minute ale primei intalniri. Extrovertitii mint mai mult comparativ cu introvertitii. Barbatii mint de opt ori mai mult despre ei insisi decat despre alte persoane. Femeile mint mai mult ca sa-i protejeze pe altii. In medie, sotii isi mint partenerii in una din zece interactiuni. Cei necasatoriti mint o data la fiecare trei interactiuni. Daca aceste date v-au captat atentia, atunci va invit sa urmariti prezentarea video facuta de Pamela Meyer.



Pamela Meyer: How to spot a liar
On any given day we are lied to from 10 to 200 times, and the clues to detect those lies can be subtle and counter-intuitive. Pamela Meyer, author of Liespotting, shows the manners and "hotspots" used by those trained to recognize deception, and she argues honesty is a value worth preserving.

Strangers lie three times within the first 10 minutes of meeting each other. Extroverts lie more than introverts. Men lie eight times more about themselves than they do about other people. Women lie more to protect other people. On average, married couples lie to each other in one out of every 10 interactions. Unmarried people lie in one out of every three interactions. If these figures have caught your attention, then watch the video presentation made by Pamela Meyer.

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