Secretul dorintei intr-o relatie pe termen lung / The secret to desire in a long-term relationship

English version follows in the second part of the post

In relatiile pe termen lung, ne asteptam adesea ca iubirea noastra sa fie si prietenul/a cel/cea mai bun/a, si un partener/a erotic/a. Dar asa cum argumenteaza Esther Perel, sexul de calitate si de durata se bazeaza pe doua nevoi aflate in conflict: nevoia noastra de securitate si nevoia noastra de surpriza. Cum pastrezi dorinta? Cu inteligenta si elocventa, Esther Perel ne introduce in misterul inteligentei erotice. Vizionare placuta!

In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire? With wit and eloquence, Esther Perel lets us in on the mystery of erotic intelligence. Enjoy the video!